Whether you have been together 6 months or a year, you might be dating someone really great, you might falling madly in love, and you might be asking yourself, why hasn’t he told me he loves me yet? Don’t worry, it’s not the end of the world; just because he hasn’t said it, doesn’t mean he he isn’t thinking or feeling it. He doesn’t want to scare you off by saying it too soon, and he might not even realize that you won’t think he’s serious about you by not saying it.

When a man likes a woman, his actions speak louder than any words. Does he take the time talk with you daily, make an effort to spend time with you, even despite his busy work schedule? Has he asked to meet any of your friends or family, and has he introduced you to any of his? Do you feel appreciated and valued by him? This is essential to your relationship. Are you creating something by being together, or are you a couple just to have something to do?

If you both spend time together during the day, do ordinary things like go to the grocery store, or cook meals together, and you talk about things that dig down under the surface, you are headed in the right direction. Do you feel like your partner opens up to you and expresses his emotions? Talking about feelings is a signal to you to know that he’s emotionally investing in you. Have you talked about where your relationship is going?

Do you feel like a priority in your partner’s life? Don’t be alarmed, just let him know that you aren’t going anywhere, and that you will go at whatever pace is necessary to help him feel comfortable. I’m not saying wait five years if you don’t see it going anywhere. What I am saying is, let the relationship develop naturally, and when he feels like he can relax, he’ll finally express his true feelings, which I’m sure will be worth waiting for! Remember, guys pay much more attention to actions